Where to now my friends
Well it's been 10 days since I've heard anything from her so I guess I'm out of favour and she's transferred her love to someone else and doesn't know how to tell me. The simple truth would be good instead of farting around with people.
So to that end I've jumped into the realms of Online Dating.
So far so good. I've registered on 2 sites and had good response on one of them although it is hard to time everything right as we have busy lives of our own.
If you seem to be online at the same time well luck is with you. Otherwise we seem to troll the names and photos each night when the town is ready to sleep, and alas we know full well we should be in the same motion.
What is it about relationships? We all seem to need them. Some for the fun of getting out and about, maybe others just to get their jollies every so often.
Online sites have the appeal to be there 24/7 and disassociate us from the initial face to face thing. But to me and no doubt a lot of people it's the issue of not having the medium and time/place to facilitate it to just happen.
So you get started exchanging short notes to each other as tentative musings aboout yourself and build them up on expectations as the days go by. For me it is high with expectations as you invest a lot of time and a few dollars into it all that distracts you from some normal routines in life eg. up late at night seeing if someone is online.
A random thought here is how do you find and believe love is true? You finally meet but you know or at least believe he/she has been on the "meat market" now for a while, especially if you go back to when you had your first love as a teenager. In the recent past though you and they have been having a bit of fun whether it leads to sex, usually as you/they want to tag that fish. It's then up to you there and then whether to release it straight away or dangle it in a bucket for a while to see if you can tame the creature.
Whilst most of the women say they don't want it on the first date research and friends seem to assert this to be a falsehood. In fact most guys, well the honest ones are happy to see where things go .
Well enough of that, for now.
Half way through the long weekend and finally the weather looks towards a downturn and probably more homebound. Maybe I'll get the housework done yet. See I'm distracted from some basic routine and thinking of her who ever she is or may be to come into my life.
It's nice to be on your own but in all I would like to have some regularity to be with and share lives with someone who can be sincere and honest to trust and hopefully love...yes even true love. I'm a bit optomistic at this stage!
When we sit around to watch a movie or like to go out for dinner we pine for that person. At the moment the best and I don't mean any disrespect but Mal and I have to go and get Indian takeaway to share each others company and friendship.
Mal, yes what a guy. Lucky bastard has found a young lady in her late thirties who just wants to use his body to try and fulfill her sexual conquests lately. Poor Mal has so far come out with a stiff neck from the horizontal gymnastics. Lucky bastard.
So the Crows have won another game and finally beat the Lions at the Gabba. Hopes are there to be a serious contender for the flag at the end of the year.
The clouds are coming over here now so we may get some light rain to keep us of the roads and indoors for a while.
Last musing for now:
When we go to work and Friday comes around I find it depressing to come home to a solitude existence and no one there to ease the pain.
May the force be with you
Riker out.
So to that end I've jumped into the realms of Online Dating.
So far so good. I've registered on 2 sites and had good response on one of them although it is hard to time everything right as we have busy lives of our own.
If you seem to be online at the same time well luck is with you. Otherwise we seem to troll the names and photos each night when the town is ready to sleep, and alas we know full well we should be in the same motion.
What is it about relationships? We all seem to need them. Some for the fun of getting out and about, maybe others just to get their jollies every so often.
Online sites have the appeal to be there 24/7 and disassociate us from the initial face to face thing. But to me and no doubt a lot of people it's the issue of not having the medium and time/place to facilitate it to just happen.
So you get started exchanging short notes to each other as tentative musings aboout yourself and build them up on expectations as the days go by. For me it is high with expectations as you invest a lot of time and a few dollars into it all that distracts you from some normal routines in life eg. up late at night seeing if someone is online.
A random thought here is how do you find and believe love is true? You finally meet but you know or at least believe he/she has been on the "meat market" now for a while, especially if you go back to when you had your first love as a teenager. In the recent past though you and they have been having a bit of fun whether it leads to sex, usually as you/they want to tag that fish. It's then up to you there and then whether to release it straight away or dangle it in a bucket for a while to see if you can tame the creature.
Whilst most of the women say they don't want it on the first date research and friends seem to assert this to be a falsehood. In fact most guys, well the honest ones are happy to see where things go .
Well enough of that, for now.
Half way through the long weekend and finally the weather looks towards a downturn and probably more homebound. Maybe I'll get the housework done yet. See I'm distracted from some basic routine and thinking of her who ever she is or may be to come into my life.
It's nice to be on your own but in all I would like to have some regularity to be with and share lives with someone who can be sincere and honest to trust and hopefully love...yes even true love. I'm a bit optomistic at this stage!
When we sit around to watch a movie or like to go out for dinner we pine for that person. At the moment the best and I don't mean any disrespect but Mal and I have to go and get Indian takeaway to share each others company and friendship.
Mal, yes what a guy. Lucky bastard has found a young lady in her late thirties who just wants to use his body to try and fulfill her sexual conquests lately. Poor Mal has so far come out with a stiff neck from the horizontal gymnastics. Lucky bastard.
So the Crows have won another game and finally beat the Lions at the Gabba. Hopes are there to be a serious contender for the flag at the end of the year.
The clouds are coming over here now so we may get some light rain to keep us of the roads and indoors for a while.
Last musing for now:
When we go to work and Friday comes around I find it depressing to come home to a solitude existence and no one there to ease the pain.
May the force be with you
Riker out.
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